What are you letting scare you so much that it’s holding you back?
I think the most important thing to think about is whether or not if her leaving you would make you reconsider her friendship in the first place. What I mean is that if there’s someone out there who you’re close with but will just leave you once they meet someone new, do you really want them as a friend? Are they all they seemed to be when you met them? I know for me that if someone thought I was extremely disposable, I probably would hesitate from staying attached to them. But really, what does that mean in the face of losing someone you care about? Nothing. But I think that if after telling her how you feel and voicing the concern to her she still leaves, then maybe looking back at the friendship and looking at it critically might be useful. Again, that’s easier said than done, but if someone leaves, then there is really no changing their mind and chasing after them doesn’t always work. Plus, new people always seem to come around even if we don’t think they will. I mean, how did you meet this friend you’re talking about now? Probably by chance meeting or common hobbies and situations. If you forged a friendship before, you can for sure do it again. I’m sorry for the so late reply. I don’t even know if you’re dealing with this issue anymore, so I’m sorry for being zero help, if this problem has passed you by.
Hi. It’s this one here.